Max Rushden reflects on returning to watch Cambridge United with a childhood friend nearly 37 years after they attended a memorable 6–0 win over Hartlepool. Cambridge’s 1–0 Carabao Cup defeat to Millwall prompts him to consider whether he still loves attending football itself or the nostalgia and sense of belonging associated with his former home ground.

The match was settled early by Millwall defender Jake Cooper, ending Cambridge’s cup run despite what Rushden describes as some decent play. He contrasts childhood conversations about football stickers with adult discussions of mortgages, parenting and retirement, while noting that the Abbey Stadium’s familiar surroundings—its terraces, turnstiles and nearby landmarks—remain a powerful connection for supporters whose visits have become infrequent.