Rosanne Cash Wrote This Hit Single After Losing at the Grammy Awards in 1983
Rosanne Cash began writing “I Don’t Know Why You Don’t Want Me” after losing the 1983 Grammy for Best Country Vocal Performance, Female. Though the lyrics sound like a song about romantic rejection, the article says they were inspired by her disappointment at what felt like rejection from the music industry.
Cash developed the idea while driving along Hollywood Boulevard, then worked on the song with her then-husband, Rodney Crowell. Released on her 1985 album *Rhythm & Romance*, it featured Vince Gill and later earned Cash her first Grammy, in 1986, in the same category she had lost. It was also nominated for Best Country Song, which went to Jimmy Webb’s “Highwayman”.
- A 1983 Grammy loss inspired Cash to start writing the song.
- Rodney Crowell helped her develop it.
- The song won Cash her first Grammy in 1986.