# The ultimate breakup! ‘Are We Dating the Same Guy?’ shuts down 223 groups after cheating men protest

- URL: https://talkfuse.com/story/the-ultimate-breakup-are-we-dating-the-same-guy-shuts-down-223-groups-after-cheating-men-protest/
- Published: 2026-11-14T13:42:09+00:00
- Updated: 2026-11-14T14:21:33+00:00
- Original publisher: New York Post (publisher lean: Right)
- Original article: https://nypost.com/2026/11/14/lifestyle/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-shuts-down-223-groups-after-men-protest/
- Topics: World

## Key points

- The dating groups have stopped taking new posts.
- The network reached over 10 million women.
- Existing warnings are expected to remain searchable.

## Summary

The “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups have stopped accepting new posts after four and a half years, ending a network that helped women compare experiences and flag potential risks in dating. The groups became controversial because men were publicly discussed, and administrators say threats, lawsuits and complaints to Facebook contributed to the decision to wind them down.

Founded in New York in 2022, the network grew to more than 10 million women across over 250 cities. Existing posts are expected to remain searchable and open to comments, though the article says claims that attacks led to two large groups disappearing could not be independently verified. Members’ posts sometimes exposed alleged infidelity and abuse; information from a group also helped police investigate an Oregon man who pleaded guilty to coercion and domestic violence assault and was sentenced to 70 days in jail and three years’ probation.

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