Struggling to settle in at uni? Students share their tips
Students starting university have described the loneliness, homesickness and uncertainty they faced, and how they gradually settled in. Their experiences suggest that finding a routine and making connections can take time, and that many other students are feeling just as nervous.
The students’ suggestions include joining sports teams or societies, inviting people for a coffee or to study, and keeping in touch with family. Several said it took until the second term to feel settled; one student found a weekly rugby session helped her meet people, while others formed friendships through societies and exploring their city.
- Settling in can take until the second term.
- Sports and societies helped students build friendships.
- Staying in touch with family eased homesickness.
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Many students find the transition to university challenging, experiencing loneliness, homesickness and uncertainty as they adjust to independent living and new surroundings. Understanding what others have gone through can help newcomers feel less isolated in these feelings.
Several students have shared accounts of gradually settling into university over time, with many finding that becoming truly comfortable takes longer than initially expected. Their experiences suggest that feeling uncertain during the first weeks or months is a common experience among arriving students.
Students have adopted various approaches to ease their transition and build connections on campus. These include becoming involved in clubs and societies, maintaining contact with family, and recognising that finding your place at university is a gradual process.